What Even Is A Girls Girl?

You hear it all the time. She’s such a Girls Girl. But what does it actually mean?

The truth is, it’s universal, yet deeply personal. Women everywhere use the phrase, but if you ask ten different people to define it, you’ll get ten different answers. 

To some, a Girls Girl is the friend who never lets you walk into a party alone. To others, it’s the woman who hypes you up in the bathroom, the coworker who pushes your name forward for the promotion, the stranger who fixes your tag without making a big deal about it.

Being a Girls Girl isn’t about having a certain type of personality or fitting into a specific mold. It’s about showing up for other women—not just the ones you know, but the ones you don’t. 

It’s about choosing admiration over jealousy, support over judgment, collaboration over
competition. It’s knowing that another woman’s success doesn’t take away from your own, and that there is enough space for all of us to succeed.

Connection looks different for everyone. Some find it at yoga, some over cocktails, some screaming Breaking Free on a rooftop overlooking New York City. The setting changes, but the feeling stays the same—that moment when you’re fully yourself, no walls up, no second-guessing, just free.

That’s what it’s really about. Not the activity, but the freedom. The ability to exist exactly as you are, without fear of judgment. I still get chills thinking about that rooftop—girls, arms around each other, belting childhood anthems with total strangers, looking out at the city like we owned it. Most of them had never met before, but none of that mattered.

Because suddenly, nothing else did.

Not what you looked like, where you were from, or how much money you had. What mattered was that we had something in common—a shared childhood, a shared laugh, a shared moment of belonging to something bigger than ourselves.

That’s what matters. That’s what I’m building. That’s what Girls Girls Club is about.

At the end of the day, real connection is everything. And every woman deserves to feel it. Maybe a Girls Girl can’t be defined in just one way—but when you find your people, you just know. And that feeling? That’s everything.